Dating an abstinent girl
A 6th grade teacher taking my graduate course in moral education said, “The boys bring in Playboy, the girls wear make-up and jewelry, and the kids write heavy sexual notes to each other.” At an Indiana high school, a teacher said, “Kids in the halls will call out—boy to girl, girl to boy—`I want to f— you.'” At Lakewood High School in an affluent Los Angeles suburb, a group of boys formed the “Spur Posse,” a club in which participants competed to see how many girls they could sleep with.Growing up in a highly eroticized sexual environment—a legacy of the sexual revolution—American children are preoccupied with sex in developmentally distorted ways and increasingly likely to act out their sexual impulses.In 1990, 29 states set records for the sex-and-violence crime of rape.
The show was cancelled in 2002, but after extremely positive response to DVDs and reruns on Adult Swim, production of new episodes for FOX resumed in 2005.
These changes resulted in what can be called the “Abstinence, But” approach, which says two things to students: By any ethical, educational, or public health measure, nondirective sex education has been a failure.