Should you give out your phone number online dating
Only once have I given my phone number and that was to one we had already exchanged several e-mails. If you want to speak to the other person, you give them your number. If the conversation is dull and forced, then why bother meeting?It was when she revealed her father had taken a grave turn for the worse in terminal illness. this thread needs more female input I like to feel it out, and drop mine when it feels right.My initial message I try to keep brief with an interesting headline to catch some attention. If i get a positive response to my initial message I will usually give out my phone number in my more detailed follow up message as well as my facebook url. It amazes me how quickly men give their phone number in the first contact. I've been asked for my number just as quickly and I ignore the request so that I won't live to regret it!Although I have heard of some men including a phone number in the initial message I feel it is too aggressive. If I have a true interest and feel that the interest is mutual, I'll offer my number.
You want to be able to string the guy along with however many others you are doing the same thing to.String the guy along via e-mail, probably never intending to actually meet them, only to stroke your own ego.Get a pen pal, be honest about what you want and stop pissing off the people who DO want to meet someone. I always do that, or suggest "Hey why dont you text me , cause it sucks trying to continuously email all the time" Its true, especially when the emails are short and its just easier in this day and age to text.Now I just ask something along the lines of," Obviously we know why we are on this site so you tell me how you see things happening in terms of getting to know eachother. We can email back and forth for a while and ask eachother questions2.